You’re A Nag! Don’t kill my vibe

Sharing your life with a man can be a difficult task. It requires consistency, empathy and patience because no matter how much you love him, he is bound to get on your nerves every now and then.

 There are the situations where a woman is constantly irritable, whiny and never satisfied. This type of woman shows up at a party to complain about how bad it is. She wants to go everywhere with her man, but then bugs him to leave early. She kills the vibe everywhere she goes. If you’re reading this and realize that you have done one or more of these things, you may want to stop and ask yourself one question: Am I a nag?

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Nag is a strong word that no one wants to be called, but the truth is there are a lot out there. If that’s you don’t be offended, just work on changing it. Picking your battles is one of the most important relationship commandments, but many seem to forget that. Whether it’s because you are moody, jealous or sensitive, keep in mind that nagging will only make problems worse. Constantly harping on petty issues with your man is bothersome and soon he will stop enjoying your company. As harsh as that sounds, it’s the truth. Your friends will eventually become desensitized to your melodramatic behavior as well and soon you will be the renowned buzz kill.

Keeping your nagging in check doesn’t mean you have to wear a muzzle. If there are important issues, by all means, speak on it. Just remember that nothing is ever going to be perfect and the world will not adjust to your idea of what’s right. If you feel like you always have to check your man about something, chances are you two are probably not right for each other. Enjoy life and be appreciative of what you have. A positive attitude goes a long way.

By: Kamia Simmons